abbadabba's Journal, 08 Feb 24

It sounds it. Many of us older women don't even have the option.  

I'm 63 and divorced and finally free. We out so much into relationships. We can forget ourselves a d it happiness. Don't forget yourself. If he doesn't value you as a person or makes you feel like crap. Then revaluate . Find what you need and want. If it means good bye then by all means say it. Yes dating I guess can be challenging after 60 which is what I am. After being with verbally abusive, emotional abusive and spiritual abusive person for too long it was nice to part. Btw he cheated fir many years and then asked fir a divorce. I'm happy alone and finally at peacem it was challenging for sure. I have three adult sons one if which is special needs. The divorce cause him to Bec me extra aggressive and combative. He had supports put in place and he had therapy. He also has epilepsy from this traumatic experience. We are moving right along. Healing continues. Don't let him make u lose yourself make yourself a priority