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Well, last night Hubs and I had a bad conversation. He realized I'm not in love with him anymore. He said, "yeah this is about the time it happens." I told him, "I don't see him the same way anymore." He said, "I'm a scarred man. And scarred and strong is scary to you because everyone you know is weak." I said, "They are kind." He just left for work coldly. I'm like 🤷♀️ It will likely blow over like the rest. He is quick to insult everyone not like him.
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54.4 kg
Lost so far: 5.4 kg.
Still to go: 2.3 kg.
Diet followed: Reasonably Well.
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1828 kcal
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Fat: 71.16g | Prot: 68.61g | Carbs: 204.64g.
Breakfast: Atkins Creamy Vanilla Protein Rich Shake. Lunch: Chicken Wrap, Sonic Sonic Blast with M&M's Minis Chocolate Candies Mini. Dinner: Pasta with Meat Sauce, Expo Fresh Strawberries , Flavorite Dessert Cups. Snacks/Other: Cheez-It White Cheddar Snack Crackers , Coors Light Beer (Bottle), Kroger Yellow Popcorn. more...
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1806 kcal
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Exercise:
Watching TV/Computer - 2 hours, Driving - 15 minutes, Walking (slow) - 3/kph - 2 hours and 15 minutes, Desk Work - 8 hours, Resting - 3 hours and 30 minutes, Sleeping - 8 hours. more...
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Welp, the lines of communication are open albeit not great as it seems he deflects. Time will tell what happens and how you move forward from this.
02 Apr 24 by member: Sternfan
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@Sternfan True. Every day feels weirder.
02 Apr 24 by member: WisteriaSky233
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However your situation turns out, I wish you well.
02 Apr 24 by member: slsherrill1
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Glad to see an update from you Wisteria. Sorry about the hard conversations. You will get through this. You are strong, no matter what anyone says!
02 Apr 24 by member: wafflewitz
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Sorry for you be strong. 😌
02 Apr 24 by member: sstowell
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02 Apr 24 by member: 56Angeli
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There are different kinds of strengths so you can be as strong in a different way, however, from the snippet I see he needs to seek counseling to help him deal with his scars. It sounds like he pushes people away or runs away himself when things get tough.
02 Apr 24 by member: SabylRose
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Are you safe? Is this an abusive relationship?
02 Apr 24 by member: shirfleur 1
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May I ask how would you want this situation to be resolved? I guess you know the other person changing will not be the answer.
03 Apr 24 by member: IneseOfficial
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Another episode. Started when I got mad at the coffeemaker for spilling everywhere in the kitchen. I was upset and he goes, "if you're this miserable then just leave." I was thinking I want too! Said he feeds off anger and many times he leaves angry. Always putting the blame on me. I am so over him, this life, the getting up at 4am every day of my life! I hate it all.
I walk 6 miles when I'm so upset I can't do anything else.
03 Apr 24 by member: WisteriaSky233
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@IneseOfficial I don't think there's a resolution other than being miserable or divorce. I don't think it is fixable as I have given up trying
03 Apr 24 by member: WisteriaSky233
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@shirfleur 1 safe physically but he is an emotional abuser.
03 Apr 24 by member: WisteriaSky233
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Head up and shoulders back! You are responsible for your happiness. You are wise to not jump into a divorce too quickly, proud of you for thoughtfully trying to find the best path forward for yourself. We are rooting for you.
04 Apr 24 by member: rhontique
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