Deasmiles you have my prayers!!!! Florida rents in the tampa bay area have shot through the roof. The average one bedroom is running around $1100-$1200 for a small one bedroom. Found one place in a decent neighborhood 2 bedroom for $945-working on getting that and looking at some condo rentals before I make my final decision. Good Luck. What part of the US do you live in? (if you live in the United States)
24 May 16 by member: Maine coon
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in this situation diet definitely comes second...store cash money and dry food ( so you don't have to buy groceries right away when you move) and other things he won't notice somewhere ... get your new place... block numbers and contacts and save yourself before you heal your self. you have time to lose weight when you're out..
24 May 16 by member: 8hunter6
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Sorry, Deasmiles, I did a quick glance at your journal at first, I am very sorry about your home situation. God Bless.
24 May 16 by member: Maine coon
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I don't know what to say, but my thoughts and prayers are with you.
24 May 16 by member: ginger dog
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24 May 16 by member: jimmiepop
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I live in Austin, Texas. I have a good job, but he is driving me crazy, threats, pushing me around, you can't read, can't watch tv, disconnnecting the internet. He is a mental patient. I have to get away I don't want to go to a shelter, iam moving cloeths to a storage during my lunch breaks. Thanks for the paryers.
24 May 16 by member: deasmiles
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I know you don't want to go to a shelter, BUT PLEASE be SAFE! If that's what it takes for just a little bit, so be it. Your well being is of utmost importance!
24 May 16 by member: Rckc
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Please protect yourself and get out soon. My prayers are with you!!
24 May 16 by member: ImLaura
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http://womenshealth.gov/violence-against-women/get-help-for-violence/safety-planning-for-abusive-situations.html
Hope you find a way out and up.
24 May 16 by member: Five-Two Cowboy
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Be safe - wishing you a smooth getaway from that bad situation. And soonest!
24 May 16 by member: trackin64
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Stay strong. My thoughts will be with you.
24 May 16 by member: Kppgreen
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Thank you for the support, one of the things abusers do is make you the victim feel ashamed of the abuse they inflict. My hsuband tells me I am not "allowed" to speak about him ever, he is paranoid, and difficult. It is precisely for that reason I am reaching out. I know I did nothing to deserve any of this some people are just broken.
24 May 16 by member: deasmiles
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Dea, I am praying for both You AND Carmen to make it out.
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24 May 16 by member: deasmiles
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Praying for you Deasmiles
24 May 16 by member: Bopuc
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Stay strong. Maybe a shelter is not so bad Just for a short time, If only to gather your thought and get some money together so you can move on and they might have someone there to help you move in the right direction. Also it's. safe
24 May 16 by member: Char60
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You are in my thoughts, stay strong. Deasmiles make a decision and go for it, don't look back. Once you take the first step it gets easier.
26 May 16 by member: Zenfreek
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We are Praying for you. Abuse is not good and you are coping the best you can. There is help for your situation. Be strong and focus on what you need to do to correct this and you will be in a better place to diet and exercise.
26 May 16 by member: DBLWING
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Stay safe. That may mean leaving immediately or it may mean staying long enough to formulate a safe exit strategy.
26 May 16 by member: LadyinDenim
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I will. Sorry for your situation. Be very careful in getting out of it as things tend to escalate at that juncture. Find a shelter. Staying safe is paramount you can lose weight later.
26 May 16 by member: brisbee
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